{"id":5347,"date":"2023-01-31T13:53:17","date_gmt":"2023-01-31T10:53:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.cocukpsikiyatricuneytozcan.com\/sibling-rivalry\/"},"modified":"2026-07-21T00:19:55","modified_gmt":"2026-07-20T21:19:55","slug":"sibling-rivalry","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.cocukpsikiyatricuneytozcan.com\/en\/sibling-rivalry\/","title":{"rendered":"Sibling Rivalry"},"content":{"rendered":"&#13;\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_78 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-light-blue ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 eztoc-toggle-hide-by-default' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/www.cocukpsikiyatricuneytozcan.com\/en\/sibling-rivalry\/#What_Is_Sibling_Jealousy_in_Children\" >What Is Sibling Jealousy in Children?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.cocukpsikiyatricuneytozcan.com\/en\/sibling-rivalry\/#In_Which_Children_Is_Sibling_Jealousy_Most_Commonly_Observed\" >In Which Children Is Sibling Jealousy Most Commonly Observed?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/www.cocukpsikiyatricuneytozcan.com\/en\/sibling-rivalry\/#What_Are_the_Causes_of_Sibling_Jealousy\" >What Are the Causes of Sibling Jealousy?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/www.cocukpsikiyatricuneytozcan.com\/en\/sibling-rivalry\/#What_Are_the_Signs_of_Sibling_Jealousy\" >What Are the Signs of Sibling Jealousy?<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/www.cocukpsikiyatricuneytozcan.com\/en\/sibling-rivalry\/#Cocugunuzun_Yeni_Dogan_Kardese_Uyum_Saglamasina_Nasil_Yardimci_Olabilirsiniz\" >\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun Yeni Do\u011fan Karde\u015fe Uyum Sa\u011flamas\u0131na Nas\u0131l Yard\u0131mc\u0131 Olabilirsiniz?<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<\/p>&#13;\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_Is_Sibling_Jealousy_in_Children\"><\/span><strong>What Is Sibling Jealousy in Children?<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>&#13;\n<p>Sibling jealousy is a situation in which an older child is unable to accept a new baby joining the family. It is a natural emotion commonly observed among siblings. This feeling of jealousy is seen in the older sibling, who believes that all the love will be directed toward the new sibling upon their birth and fears that the love for them will end. Even if parents are very sensitive and careful about this issue, children sometimes struggle greatly to overcome this feeling. But the most important factor, of course, is the family\u2019s attitude and the child\u2019s temperament and personality traits.    <\/p>&#13;\n<p>In cases of sibling jealousy, the relationships children form at a young age, as well as their personality and sense of self, will play a significant role in all the choices they make throughout their lives. In early childhood, as children begin to speak and develop their ability to make sense of the world, their emotions and thoughts first take shape within the family. <\/p>&#13;\n<p>First and foremost, since children begin to form relationships with their mother, father, and siblings, this process must be managed very carefully, especially by the parents. The older child should be gradually introduced to this idea and prepared for it even before the new sibling is born. The child should be prepared to understand that the same love will be given equally to both them and their sibling. It is important to understand that when the dynamics and management of relationships among the mother, father, and siblings are well-balanced, healthy and positive relationships within the family will be sustained.   <\/p>&#13;\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"In_Which_Children_Is_Sibling_Jealousy_Most_Commonly_Observed\"><\/span><strong>In Which Children Is Sibling Jealousy Most Commonly Observed?  <\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>&#13;\n<p>The phenomenon of sibling jealousy in children typically begins around age 2. In children aged 2 and older, with the arrival of a new baby\u2014that is, a sibling\u2014children may feel that all the love will be directed toward the new baby and that they themselves will be forgotten. This is perfectly normal. The child may begin to feel extremely jealous of their parents and, at times, exhibit aggressive behavior. A child who has always known that all the attention and love in the family were directed solely at them suddenly realizes that they will have to share their parents with their sibling and begins to experience an emotional turmoil.    <\/p>&#13;\n<p>When both siblings are girls, they may show more signs of jealousy than in cases where there are two boys or one girl and one boy. At the same time, the age difference between them is also a major factor. The smaller the age gap, the more intense the jealousy tends to be. For all these reasons, jealousy is generally more severe in children under the age of 3 and in children who still need their mother\u2019s care and support.   <\/p>&#13;\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_Are_the_Causes_of_Sibling_Jealousy\"><\/span><strong>What Are the Causes of Sibling Jealousy?<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>&#13;\n<p>It is well known that jealousy, a natural emotion, stems from an inability to accept that loved ones are shared with others and, at its core, from feelings of insecurity. With the birth of a sibling, a child\u2019s sense that the time set aside for them is diminishing may appear to be an attitude directed toward the sibling, but it can actually lead to the development of feelings such as anger, resentment, and hurt toward the parents. <\/p>&#13;\n<p>  At the same time, a small age gap between siblings is one of the main causes of jealousy. Another reason may be a difference in gender. A sibling born of a different gender than the child may lead the child to believe that their parents brought this child into the world because they were dissatisfied with their own gender. In this situation, the parents bear the greatest responsibility.   <\/p>&#13;\n<p>They must be very careful when reflecting their preferences based on gender. Another important factor is the comparison of siblings with one another. This comparison can lead to competition among siblings and trigger feelings of jealousy. In such situations, parents must be careful to avoid using phrases that fuel competition when speaking in front of their children.   <\/p>&#13;\n<p>At the same time, certain behaviors of close relatives\u2014such as grandmothers, grandfathers, aunts, or uncles\u2014can also trigger feelings of jealousy in children. Focusing attention or affection solely on the younger child, making the older child feel sidelined, or comparing siblings to one another can lead to intense feelings of jealousy among siblings. <\/p>&#13;\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_Are_the_Signs_of_Sibling_Jealousy\"><\/span><strong>What Are the Signs of Sibling Jealousy?  <\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>&#13;\n<p>It is perfectly normal for a child to feel jealous when they think that the attention and care they once received exclusively have suddenly diminished with the arrival of a sibling. And the ways in which children express jealousy can vary from child to child. <\/p>&#13;\n<p>Children who experience feelings of jealousy often believe that if they act like their sibling, all the attention and care will shift back to them. For this reason, they may tend to imitate their sibling by acting like a baby. Aside from all this, the general signs of jealousy are as follows:  <\/p>&#13;\n<ul>&#13;\n<li>Alt\u0131na yapma<\/li>&#13;\n<li>Bebeksi tav\u0131rlara b\u00fcr\u00fcnme<\/li>&#13;\n<li>Karde\u015fi gibi anne memesinden emzirilmek istenmesi<\/li>&#13;\n<li>Parmak emme<\/li>&#13;\n<li>S\u00fcrekli ilgi ve alaka bekleme<\/li>&#13;\n<li>A\u011flama ve kriz n\u00f6betleri<\/li>&#13;\n<\/ul>&#13;\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Cocugunuzun_Yeni_Dogan_Kardese_Uyum_Saglamasina_Nasil_Yardimci_Olabilirsiniz\"><\/span><strong>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun Yeni Do\u011fan Karde\u015fe Uyum Sa\u011flamas\u0131na Nas\u0131l Yard\u0131mc\u0131 Olabilirsiniz? <\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>&#13;\n<p>Your first child is used to being the baby of the family and is very aware that all the attention is on them. So it shouldn\u2019t be surprising that they feel jealous of this new baby who seems to be stealing all your attention and care. When your child wants your attention, saying things like \u201cI\u2019m breastfeeding the baby, so I can\u2019t help you\u201d or \u201cWe can\u2019t go out; it\u2019s the baby\u2019s nap time\u201d will only fuel your child\u2019s resentment and jealousy.  <\/p>&#13;\n<p>Instead of pointing your finger at your child when you want to correct them, you can find alternative ways to say \u201cno.\u201d Try to downplay your child\u2019s feelings of jealousy as much as possible. When your child shows signs of jealousy toward a sibling, try not to overreact to the situation. Just try to understand and accept their feelings.   <\/p>&#13;\n<p>Try to avoid making comparisons as much as possible. One child will naturally be better than the other in school or in other areas. Always avoid comparing their abilities or behavior. 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