{"id":5330,"date":"2026-05-12T22:17:26","date_gmt":"2026-05-12T19:17:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.cocukpsikiyatricuneytozcan.com\/signs-of-low-self-esteem-in-children\/"},"modified":"2026-05-12T22:17:26","modified_gmt":"2026-05-12T19:17:26","slug":"signs-of-low-self-esteem-in-children","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.cocukpsikiyatricuneytozcan.com\/en\/signs-of-low-self-esteem-in-children\/","title":{"rendered":"Signs of Low Self-Esteem in Children"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"blog-content\">\n<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-5144 size-full\" src=\"http:\/\/www.cocukpsikiyatricuneytozcan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/cocuklarda-ozguven-eksikligi-belirtileri.png\" alt=\"Signs of Low Self-Esteem in Children\" width=\"1672\" height=\"941\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.cocukpsikiyatricuneytozcan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/cocuklarda-ozguven-eksikligi-belirtileri.png 1672w, https:\/\/www.cocukpsikiyatricuneytozcan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/cocuklarda-ozguven-eksikligi-belirtileri-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.cocukpsikiyatricuneytozcan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/cocuklarda-ozguven-eksikligi-belirtileri-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.cocukpsikiyatricuneytozcan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/cocuklarda-ozguven-eksikligi-belirtileri-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.cocukpsikiyatricuneytozcan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/cocuklarda-ozguven-eksikligi-belirtileri-1536x864.png 1536w, https:\/\/www.cocukpsikiyatricuneytozcan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/cocuklarda-ozguven-eksikligi-belirtileri-600x338.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1672px) 100vw, 1672px\" \/><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cChildren\u2019s self-confidence doesn\u2019t come from being perfect; it grows when they feel accepted even when they make mistakes.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_78 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-light-blue ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" 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ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/www.cocukpsikiyatricuneytozcan.com\/en\/signs-of-low-self-esteem-in-children\/#What_Are_the_Signs_of_Low_Self-Esteem_in_Children\" >What Are the Signs of Low Self-Esteem in Children?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/www.cocukpsikiyatricuneytozcan.com\/en\/signs-of-low-self-esteem-in-children\/#What_Causes_Low_Self-Esteem_in_Children\" >What Causes Low Self-Esteem in Children?<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/www.cocukpsikiyatricuneytozcan.com\/en\/signs-of-low-self-esteem-in-children\/#Being_Constantly_Criticized\" >Being Constantly Criticized<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/www.cocukpsikiyatricuneytozcan.com\/en\/signs-of-low-self-esteem-in-children\/#Being_Compared_to_Other_Children\" >Being Compared to Other Children<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/www.cocukpsikiyatricuneytozcan.com\/en\/signs-of-low-self-esteem-in-children\/#Overprotective_Parenting_Style_%E2%80%93_Helicopter_Parenting\" >Overprotective Parenting Style \u2013 Helicopter Parenting<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-8\" href=\"https:\/\/www.cocukpsikiyatricuneytozcan.com\/en\/signs-of-low-self-esteem-in-children\/#Fear_of_Failure\" >Fear of Failure<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-9\" href=\"https:\/\/www.cocukpsikiyatricuneytozcan.com\/en\/signs-of-low-self-esteem-in-children\/#Social_Strains\" >Social Strains<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-10\" href=\"https:\/\/www.cocukpsikiyatricuneytozcan.com\/en\/signs-of-low-self-esteem-in-children\/#How_Does_a_Lack_of_Self-Confidence_Affect_School_Life\" >How Does a Lack of Self-Confidence Affect School Life?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-11\" href=\"https:\/\/www.cocukpsikiyatricuneytozcan.com\/en\/signs-of-low-self-esteem-in-children\/#How_Can_We_Help_Build_Self-Confidence_in_Children\" >How Can We Help Build Self-Confidence in Children?<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-12\" href=\"https:\/\/www.cocukpsikiyatricuneytozcan.com\/en\/signs-of-low-self-esteem-in-children\/#Recognize_the_Childs_Efforts\" >Recognize the Child&#8217;s Efforts<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-13\" href=\"https:\/\/www.cocukpsikiyatricuneytozcan.com\/en\/signs-of-low-self-esteem-in-children\/#Let_Them_Make_Mistakes\" >Let Them Make Mistakes<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-14\" href=\"https:\/\/www.cocukpsikiyatricuneytozcan.com\/en\/signs-of-low-self-esteem-in-children\/#Give_Them_Small_Responsibilities\" >Give Them Small Responsibilities<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-15\" href=\"https:\/\/www.cocukpsikiyatricuneytozcan.com\/en\/signs-of-low-self-esteem-in-children\/#Avoid_Making_Comparisons\" >Avoid Making Comparisons<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-16\" href=\"https:\/\/www.cocukpsikiyatricuneytozcan.com\/en\/signs-of-low-self-esteem-in-children\/#Listen_to_Your_Feelings\" >Listen to Your Feelings<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-17\" href=\"https:\/\/www.cocukpsikiyatricuneytozcan.com\/en\/signs-of-low-self-esteem-in-children\/#Behaviors_Families_Should_Avoid\" >Behaviors Families Should Avoid<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-18\" href=\"https:\/\/www.cocukpsikiyatricuneytozcan.com\/en\/signs-of-low-self-esteem-in-children\/#When_Should_You_Seek_Professional_Help\" >When Should You Seek Professional Help?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-19\" href=\"https:\/\/www.cocukpsikiyatricuneytozcan.com\/en\/signs-of-low-self-esteem-in-children\/#Does_a_Lack_of_Self-Confidence_in_Children_Go_Away\" >Does a Lack of Self-Confidence in Children Go Away?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-20\" href=\"https:\/\/www.cocukpsikiyatricuneytozcan.com\/en\/signs-of-low-self-esteem-in-children\/#Get_Professional_Support\" >Get Professional Support<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Signs_of_Low_Self-Esteem_in_Children\"><\/span>Signs of Low Self-Esteem in Children<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"intro-text\">A lack of self-confidence in children is a significant issue that arises when a child struggles to feel competent, valued, and successful. Self-confidence is essential for a child to try new things, form friendships, express themselves at school, and cope with challenges. <\/p>\n<p>Some children are very afraid of making mistakes; some are reluctant to enter new environments; and others give up without even trying, constantly saying, \u201cI can\u2019t do it.\u201d These behaviors can be observed in any child from time to time. However, if they occur frequently and affect the child\u2019s daily life, they should be evaluated in terms of low self-confidence.  <\/p>\n<p>A lack of self-confidence in children should not be viewed solely as shyness. Sometimes it can also manifest as anger, crying, withdrawal, a decline in academic performance, or avoidance of social situations. <\/p>\n<p>Some symptoms may vary depending on age group. In particular, self-esteem issues can manifest in different ways across various age groups, from the preschool years through adolescence. For this reason, the child\u2019s developmental stage must always be taken into account when evaluating symptoms.  <\/p>\n<p>In the digital age, the influence of social media and the pressure to be perfect\u2014especially among adolescents\u2014can undermine self-esteem. Self-confidence issues may become more apparent in children and adolescents who constantly feel the need to compare themselves to others. <\/p>\n<hr>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_Is_a_Lack_of_Self-Confidence_in_Children\"><\/span>What Is a Lack of Self-Confidence in Children?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>A lack of self-confidence in children is a condition in which a child does not have sufficient confidence in their own abilities, decisions, and worth. Even if a child is capable of doing something, they may believe they will fail. As a result, they may avoid new experiences or constantly seek adult approval.  <\/p>\n<p>Children who lack self-confidence often compare themselves to other children. Thoughts such as \u201cHe\u2019s better than me,\u201d \u201cI can\u2019t do it anyway,\u201d and \u201cEveryone will laugh at me if I make a mistake\u201d can influence a child\u2019s behavior. <\/p>\n<p>They tend to project minor mistakes onto their entire sense of self. This can make both the child\u2019s school life and social relationships more difficult. The child may struggle to express themselves, avoid taking responsibility, and want to steer clear of situations where they might make a mistake.  <\/p>\n<p>In child psychiatry, the concepts of \u201cself-efficacy\u201d and \u201cself-esteem\u201d are just as important as the concept of self-confidence. Self-efficacy refers to a child\u2019s inner belief that they can succeed at a task, while self-esteem relates to how valuable the child perceives themselves to be. <\/p>\n<hr>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_Are_the_Signs_of_Low_Self-Esteem_in_Children\"><\/span>What Are the Signs of Low Self-Esteem in Children?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>A lack of self-confidence in children does not manifest the same way in every child. While some children may become quiet, others may show that they are struggling through reactions such as anger, defiance, or crying. <\/p>\n<p>The following symptoms may be observed in these children:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Don&#8217;t be afraid to try new things<\/li>\n<li>Don\u2019t use the phrase \u201cI can\u2019t do it\u201d too often<\/li>\n<li>Don&#8217;t be overly afraid of making mistakes<\/li>\n<li>Constantly waiting for approval<\/li>\n<li>Staying in the background among friends<\/li>\n<li>My reluctance to speak up in school<\/li>\n<li>Showing excessive sensitivity to criticism<\/li>\n<li>Don&#8217;t give up right away when you fail<\/li>\n<li>Don&#8217;t compare yourself to other children<\/li>\n<li>My reluctance to participate in social settings<\/li>\n<li>Experiencing intense crying or anger over minor mistakes<\/li>\n<li>Avoiding responsibility<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>These symptoms may indicate that the child feels inadequate and needs support. Particular attention should be paid if the symptoms have persisted for a long time and are affecting the child\u2019s daily life. <\/p>\n<hr>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_Causes_Low_Self-Esteem_in_Children\"><\/span>What Causes Low Self-Esteem in Children?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>A lack of self-confidence in children can stem from many different causes. Parental attitudes, school life, friendships, the child\u2019s temperament, and past experiences can all play a role in this process. <\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Being_Constantly_Criticized\"><\/span>Being Constantly Criticized<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>When a child is frequently criticized, they may begin to feel inadequate. Statements such as \u201cYou couldn\u2019t even do this?\u201d, \u201cIf you\u2019d paid attention, you would have gotten it right,\u201d and \u201cYour sibling does it better than you\u201d can negatively affect the child\u2019s self-image. <\/p>\n<p>Over time, a child may choose not to try new things in order to avoid making mistakes. This situation hinders the development of self-confidence. <\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Being_Compared_to_Other_Children\"><\/span>Being Compared to Other Children<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Comparison is one of the behaviors that most severely undermines self-confidence. Comparing a child to their sibling, cousin, or classmates can make them feel worthless. <\/p>\n<p>Every child\u2019s pace of development, areas of interest, and strengths are different. Therefore, rather than comparing children, we should support each child\u2019s own development. <\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Overprotective_Parenting_Style_%E2%80%93_Helicopter_Parenting\"><\/span>Overprotective Parenting Style \u2013 Helicopter Parenting<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>An overprotective parenting style\u2014or the \u201chelicopter parenting\u201d model, as it\u2019s often called these days\u2014also appears to serve as a safe haven for families. Driven by the urge to shield their child from difficulties, they eliminate the very space where the child\u2019s independent coping skills would begin to take root, without even realizing it. However, in the long run, this approach leaves the child all alone in the middle of a stormy ocean.  <\/p>\n<p>When a child is not given the opportunity to make decisions on their own, solve problems, or take on responsibilities, their self-confidence may suffer. The child may become accustomed to thinking, \u201cI can\u2019t do this on my own.\u201d <\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cBuilding self-esteem is the most critical building block of a child\u2019s psychological resilience in adulthood.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Fear_of_Failure\"><\/span>Fear of Failure<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Some children view making mistakes as a failure. These children may worry about the outcome before starting a new task. The possibility of making a mistake may discourage them from trying.  <\/p>\n<p>The fear of failure can become particularly pronounced during the school years. A child may hesitate to answer questions even on topics they know well. <\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Social_Strains\"><\/span>Social Strains<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Being excluded, teased, or rejected by peers can negatively affect a child\u2019s self-confidence. The child may become more reserved in social settings and, over time, may avoid expressing themselves. <\/p>\n<p>For this reason, when assessing a lack of self-confidence, the child\u2019s relationships at school and with friends should also be taken into account.<\/p>\n<hr>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_Does_a_Lack_of_Self-Confidence_Affect_School_Life\"><\/span>How Does a Lack of Self-Confidence Affect School Life?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Children who lack self-confidence may be reluctant to demonstrate what they know in school. Even if they know the answer, they may not raise their hand, may be reluctant to speak up in class, or may feel anxious when the teacher asks questions. <\/p>\n<p>The following conditions may be observed in these children:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Decline in class attendance<\/li>\n<li>Not being able to perform as well as you know you can on exams<\/li>\n<li>Staying in the background during group work<\/li>\n<li>Constantly seeking approval from the teacher<\/li>\n<li>Giving up too quickly after a failure<\/li>\n<li>Reluctance to Go to School<\/li>\n<li>Avoiding presentation and performance tasks<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>A lack of self-confidence can directly affect a child\u2019s academic performance. However, what matters most is that the child feels secure during the learning process. <\/p>\n<hr>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_Can_We_Help_Build_Self-Confidence_in_Children\"><\/span>How Can We Help Build Self-Confidence in Children?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>The development of self-confidence in children begins within the family. It is important for a child to feel heard, valued, and that they have the right to make mistakes. <\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Recognize_the_Childs_Efforts\"><\/span>Recognize the Child&#8217;s Efforts<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Appreciate not only the result but also the effort the child puts in. Instead of saying, \u201cGood job, you got a high grade,\u201d it\u2019s more supportive to say, \u201cYou really put a lot of effort into this assignment.\u201d <\/p>\n<p>This approach ensures that the child feels valued not only when they succeed, but also when they try their best.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Let_Them_Make_Mistakes\"><\/span>Let Them Make Mistakes<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Making mistakes is a natural part of learning. Instead of reacting harshly when a child makes a mistake, it\u2019s more helpful to talk about what they could do differently. <\/p>\n<p>For example, approaches such as \u201cIt didn\u2019t work out this time, but we can try again\u201d or \u201cI can see you\u2019re having a hard time here; let\u2019s see how we can figure this out together\u201d make it easier for the child to keep trying.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Give_Them_Small_Responsibilities\"><\/span>Give Them Small Responsibilities<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>For responsibility to contribute to self-confidence, it must align with the child\u2019s current cognitive and emotional capacity; responsibility that exceeds that capacity leads to chronic feelings of failure, while responsibility that falls below it results in the child\u2019s sense of competence never being tested. Both can hinder the development of self-confidence in different ways. <\/p>\n<p>Packing their own bag, tidying up their room, helping set the table, or making simple decisions boosts a child\u2019s sense of self-efficacy.<\/p>\n<p>When a child accomplishes a task, they experience the feeling of \u201cI can do it.\u201d<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Avoid_Making_Comparisons\"><\/span>Avoid Making Comparisons<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Instead of comparing your child to other children, evaluate them based on their own development. Statements like, \u201cYou did better than last week,\u201d help your child recognize their progress. <\/p>\n<p>This approach lays the foundation for the child to develop their own thoughts and strengthen their self-esteem.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Listen_to_Your_Feelings\"><\/span>Listen to Your Feelings<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Children who lack self-confidence may sometimes have trouble expressing themselves. For this reason, it is important for parents to listen to their child\u2019s feelings without dismissing them. <\/p>\n<p>Saying, \u201cI can see you\u2019re having a hard time doing this,\u201d instead of \u201cWhat\u2019s there to be afraid of?\u201d helps the child feel understood.<\/p>\n<hr>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Behaviors_Families_Should_Avoid\"><\/span>Behaviors Families Should Avoid<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>A lack of self-confidence in children can sometimes go unnoticed. Some behaviors that parents engage in with good intentions can make it harder for a child to feel confident. <\/p>\n<p>The following behaviors should be avoided:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Constantly criticizing a child<\/li>\n<li>Comparing them to other children<\/li>\n<li>Doing everything for the child<\/li>\n<li>Reacting harshly when someone makes a mistake<\/li>\n<li>Focusing solely on success<\/li>\n<li>Downplaying a child&#8217;s feelings<\/li>\n<li>Using judgmental statements like \u201cYou can\u2019t do that.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Being overly controlling<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>These behaviors can dampen a child\u2019s willingness to try new things. A safe, supportive, and patient approach is necessary for a child to gain self-confidence. <\/p>\n<hr>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"When_Should_You_Seek_Professional_Help\"><\/span>When Should You Seek Professional Help?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>If a child\u2019s lack of self-confidence persists for a long time and significantly affects their school, family, or social life, it may be helpful to seek professional support.<\/p>\n<p>It is recommended to seek expert assistance in the following situations:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>If a child constantly feels inadequate<\/li>\n<li>If they are actively avoiding social situations<\/li>\n<li>If they don&#8217;t want to go to school<\/li>\n<li>If they often say, \u201cI can\u2019t do it,\u201d<\/li>\n<li>If the fear of making mistakes is affecting your daily life<\/li>\n<li>If they are experiencing serious difficulties in their friendships<\/li>\n<li>If a lack of self-confidence is accompanied by anxiety, crying, or anger<\/li>\n<li>If the problem persists despite family support<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Failure to address low self-esteem in children at an early stage can pave the way for clinical conditions such as performance anxiety, social anxiety, and selective mutism later on. For this reason, it is crucial to identify and address any issues in self-confidence development starting in the preschool years. <\/p>\n<p>An expert evaluation helps identify the cause of the child\u2019s difficulties and develop an appropriate support plan.<\/p>\n<hr>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Does_a_Lack_of_Self-Confidence_in_Children_Go_Away\"><\/span>Does a Lack of Self-Confidence in Children Go Away?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>A lack of self-confidence in children can be addressed to a large extent with the right approach.<\/p>\n<p>Self-confidence is a trait that can be learned and developed. Every child needs their own unique path to develop self-confidence. <\/p>\n<p>During this process, it is important to create a safe space for the child, listen to them, recognize their effort as much as their success, and assign age-appropriate responsibilities.<\/p>\n<p>It is of great importance for children\u2019s development that families remain consistent, supportive, and understanding throughout this process.<\/p>\n<hr>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Get_Professional_Support\"><\/span>Get Professional Support<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>If you think your child\u2019s lack of self-confidence is a long-standing issue that\u2019s affecting their daily life, getting support early on can make a big difference.<\/p>\n<p>&#x1f449; To contact us via WhatsApp,<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/wa.me\/905441126789\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Click here<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>&#x1f449; For more information<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.cocukpsikiyatricuneytozcan.com\/iletisim\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">You can visit our Contact Us page<\/a>.<\/p>\n<div class=\"author-box\">Author: C\u00fcneyt Muammer \u00d6zcan<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style='text-align:center' class='yasr-auto-insert-visitor'><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cChildren\u2019s self-confidence doesn\u2019t come from being perfect; it grows when they feel accepted even when they make mistakes.\u201d Signs of &#8230; <a class=\"cz_readmore\" href=\"https:\/\/www.cocukpsikiyatricuneytozcan.com\/en\/signs-of-low-self-esteem-in-children\/\"><i class=\"fa fa-sign-out\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><span>Devam\u0131n\u0131 Oku.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5329,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"yasr_overall_rating":0,"yasr_post_is_review":"","yasr_auto_insert_disabled":"","yasr_review_type":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[109],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5330","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-psychologist"],"yasr_visitor_votes":{"stars_attributes":{"read_only":false,"span_bottom":false},"number_of_votes":0,"sum_votes":0},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cocukpsikiyatricuneytozcan.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5330","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cocukpsikiyatricuneytozcan.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cocukpsikiyatricuneytozcan.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cocukpsikiyatricuneytozcan.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cocukpsikiyatricuneytozcan.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5330"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.cocukpsikiyatricuneytozcan.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5330\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cocukpsikiyatricuneytozcan.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5329"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cocukpsikiyatricuneytozcan.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5330"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cocukpsikiyatricuneytozcan.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5330"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cocukpsikiyatricuneytozcan.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5330"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}